Sunday, March 05, 2006
okie...read abt ppl's blog...actually it does affect me...although it does not really relates to me...cos 2 ppl who can be such great friends in the past...now dislikes each others...(did i say it wrongly?)
to me...friendship is important...can u imagine life w/o anyone to tok to??
or juz to hope tt someone say...hey u r a great friend...w/o all this don't u think tt this person is abit pathetic??okie...no offence to anyone here...
if we r to find faults abt others...den i think everyone is unloveable...as in u will not be able to love this person...cos each n everyone of us have both +ve and -ve side...
so we shld learn to forgive...to say..."aiya..forget it"...does not means tt u have forgiven this person...cos to forget is only for the time being..n time doesn't really heal wounds...to really forgive..is not by ourself...cos we ourself r not perfect..so how to forgive??? through the LOVE from God...we can...
if u ask me y i can take things so easily...or cheerfully(those who really noe me noes it..)...cos,if i will to be dull on everything...isn't my life as pathetic...actually..after everything tt happened...everyone is giving the right or the choice to choose..we can choose to be happy or not...there is no one who can stop us from choosing to be happy...
juz one sentance...can cause someone to hate one person...but isn't it the same as juz one sentance.."i'am sorry..." can oso save one friendship...
izn't it better to have one more friend den enermy??
to swee...i agree wif chin tt toking to tt person abt theirs faults is useful...but using a better tone will be better...don put it a point tt u r blaming him/her...but to show tt u likes him/her as a friend...therefore u say trueful things to him...iszit it tt only true friends will tell u wad they really finds abt u...cos they oso wants to accept u..thus they tell u how they feel abt u...but if u oso treats tt person a friend..i believe face to u is nth...(swee--this is wad u tell me before..if u remember..)
to minda(if u ever see this)...i think u shld not only think abt how others treat u...or wanting them to change...cos y not change the way u view them...everything have different point of view...so to wad u say abt those ppl who u thinks is irritating u...i think they treats u as friends therefore they bother to go to ur table there to look for u...for eg. will u tok to ppl whom u do not treat as friends...or even to keep looking for them..no rite..u will only do tt when u treat them as friends...n hope tt treats u as one true friend..no offence kz..juz wad i think...
